Wabi-Sabi: Embracing Imperfection
As a follow up to our post about Hygge, the Danish concept of creating joy and coziness in life's everyday moments, we wanted to talk about the Japanese philosophy of Wabi-Sabi and how it relates to interior design and everyday life.
At its core, Wabi-Sabi is the concept of accepting imperfection. Roughly translated, Wabi means rustic simplicity or understated elegance and Sabi means taking pleasure in the imperfect. It believes that beauty is imperfect, impermanent and incomplete. Its roots come from the Japanese Tea Ceremony, which is a ritual of purity and simplicity, in which the handmade bowls and utensils that are used are often irregularly shaped and worn due to use. These items are celebrated for their beauty, which comes from their deliberate imperfections and their emotional significance.
As recovering perfectionists (okay, we may be 'in recovery'), Kirsten and I are constantly reminding each other 'not to let the perfect be the enemy of the good'. This phrase has actually helped us immensely by giving us permission to put things out that may not be 'perfect' in our minds (whatever that might be!), but it moves the process along while allowing us to make improvements and tweaks over time, or sometimes just accepting it as it is.
This aesthetic is also making its way into home design, by embracing the lived-in and weathered. It is a move away from the impractical sleek images that we are bombarded with on social media, to an aesthetic that is more functional and livable.
It’s a long awaited invitation to stray from convention and expectation and instead celebrate individuality and comfort.
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It is also a celebration of sentimentality, embracing items whose beauty comes from their meaning rather than their austere beauty. This could mean a weathered armchair that was a family heirloom or a piece of ceramic whose beauty comes from its uniqueness and the story that it tells. It also encourages us to choose materials that weather beautifully over time such as wood, stone and metal and to choose colours that are a reflection of those seen in nature. In this way it very much aligns with the concepts behind Hygge, in the way that it promotes natural elements, colours and simplicity, and in its belief that every object in your home should be beautiful, useful or both.
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Wabi-Sabi is the antithesis to big box stores, fast fashion and mass consumption. At West Side Storeys we like to call ourselves the Mom & Pop shop in the big box world of real estate, and Wabi-Sabi embraces a lot of what we believe in and strive for - quality over quantity, true connection with our clients, relationship building, the importance of community, shopping local, waste reduction and an appreciation for the uniqueness and history of the older homes that we buy and sell.
In the end, there really is no such thing as perfection, whether it be in design, houses, or let's face it, life. So isn't the pursuit of perfection inevitably a path to unhappiness and dissatisfaction? Wabi-sabi shifts this focus to one of gratitude and appreciation for what we already have, rather than the pursuit of the next shiny new thing. This powerful shift in perspective can help us to feel more peaceful and content in the current moment and improve our quality of life.
Why not try to embrace imperfection and maybe even take it a step further and seek it out? A good exercise is to purposely choose items with obvious flaws and love and cherish them for those flaws, not despite of them. By embracing an attitude of Wabi-Sabi, you allow your home to become a true reflection of who you are and perhaps this shift in attitude will lead to an acceptance and celebration of the imperfection in all aspects of our lives....wrinkles and all ;)
Making the Most of your Outdoor Space!
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One of my favorite things about summer is dining outdoors, especially this summer! The glorious weather we have enjoyed this summer has allowed us to get out of our houses (finally!) and feel a sense of normalcy after all those months stuck inside.
Even though Labour Day is fast approaching, there is still time to take advantage of the warm weather and the chance to dine ‘al fresco’, so we pulled together some outdoor dining furniture that works well with the outdoor living themes from last month. Bring in similar pops of colour, be consistent with style, and you will have expanded your functional living space all season long.
Outdoor areas are also a great place to have some fun and experiment with your style. Boho not your thing but you've always wanted to give it a try? Decorating outside is an easy way to get out of your comfort zone! Here are some great outdoor looks inspired by some of our favorite west end Toronto neighborhoods. We hope they will inspire you to make the most of your outdoor space.
Dishes | LED Candles | Table | Chairs | Bar Cart
Dishes | LED Lanterns | Table | Chairs | Storage Cabinet
Dishes | Solar Lantern | Table | Chairs | Serving Table
Dishes | Solar Lantern | Table | Chairs | Bar Cart
We plan on taking advantage of outdoor dining as long as we can, and don’t forget you can always invest in a propane heater and extend your outdoor dining season well into the fall! Have fun with it and enjoy!
Best of the West: Toronto Dog Parks
Here is a guide to the best places to take our furry friends off leash in Toronto's west end!
There are a lot of amazing things about having a dog, but one of my favourites is that they force you to get out and walk, regardless of the weather or your mood, you just have to get out there. So we have put together a list of the best places to take your pooch to get them (and you!) some exercise, and maybe a little social interaction along the way.
High Park
The big daddy of all the off leash parks, High Park has 8.5 acres of leash free trails as well as the crown jewel, Dog Hill. Located just east of the Grenadier Restaurant, and complete with picnic tables and doggy water fountains, Dog Hill is a dog lover's delight, with dogs of every size and breed cavorting around leash-free.
Sorauren Avenue Park
Located in Roncesvalles, at Sorauren and Fermanagh, this fenced-in leash free area can be enjoyed while you take in a soccer or baseball game on one of the adjacent sports fields. Added bonus, if you are there on a Monday be sure to pop into the Sorauren Farmer's Market, which takes place every Monday from 3-7pm.
Beresford Park
This small park tucked in the middle of Bloor West Village, at Beresford & Ardagh, has a dog park frequented by the many dog lovers in the area.
Baird Park
This park is located on the east side of Keele Street at Humberside, in between High Park and The Junction. Baird Park is a small park known for its active lawn bowling club, but also features a leash-free dog park which is well used by many local residents.
Coronation Park
If you want to enjoy the lake views while walking your dog, unfortunately you will have to keep them on a leash, but if you walk east along the Martin Goodman Trail to Fort York Blvd., you can lose the leash when you hit the large, fenced-in leash-free area at Coronation Park.
Sir Casimir Gzowski Park
This park, at the foot of Windermere, is also located off the Martin Goodman Trail, and allows you to go off leash while taking advantage of some spectacular lake views. If you continue on the trail heading west, you can also let your pooch run free at Humber Bay Park West (located at the bottom of Park Lawn Road).
Colonel Samuel Smith Park
In south Etobicoke, at Lake Shore & Kipling and just south of Humber College, lies the sprawling Colonel Samuel Smith Park. This lovely park, on the shores of Lake Ontario, features an outdoor skating track, playground and of course, a leash-free dog zone.
King's Mill Park
The trails along the Humber River, that run west from the Old Mill, are another wonderful place to go for a dog walk, but leashes are required here. However, you can start or end your stroll with a trip to the leash free area in nearby King's Mill Park, which is located on the banks of the Humber, just south of Bloor Street.
Trinity Bellwoods Park
A little further east, but well worth mentioning, is beautiful Trinity Bellwoods Park. Located on the north side of Queen Street at Strachan, this 38 acre park is an oasis in the middle of bustling West Queen West, and also allows you to let your best friend roam free in their designated off leash area.
Is there something you would like featured in an upcoming "Best of the West' post, or something you think we missed? Feel free to drop us a line - we are always available to chat!
Taking the Overwhelm out of Downsizing Your Home
Some of our favourite recent clients have been those who have been downsizing from their current home to a smaller, more manageable home or condo, a family suite in a family member’s home or to a retirement residence. We love taking the time to guide these clients through this big life transition and help them to start this new chapter in their lives.
Many of these clients have been in their homes for decades and some as long as half a century. These clients endear themselves to us with their stories about how the neighbourhoods have changed, the neighbours who have come and gone, the home renovations they have undertaken and the families they have raised within the walls of these homes. We are honoured and grateful to take this journey with them and consider it a privilege to play a part in this transition.
Some of these clients are in their 70’s, their children have long left home and they are finding that they either don’t want to or can’t manage the responsibilities of maintaining a house any longer. These clients require special attention because most have not moved for many years, they often have accumulated decades worth of belongings that need to be sorted and organized, and it is common for them to feel overwhelmed by the process and all the decisions that need to be made.
However, not everyone considers downsizing later in life, some other motivating factors can be a need to reduce household expenses or pursue a simpler lifestyle, a divorce, an empty nest or the desire to reduce responsibilities in order to enjoy more financial freedom and travel. Regardless of the reason or motivation, the process is similar for everyone and requires compassion, sensitivity and proactive planning.
We take a very thoughtful approach to the downsizing process and are sensitive to the many emotional components that this transition can trigger. Dealing with items belonging to family members who have passed away, engaging grown children in the downsizing process, getting rid of sentimental items that no longer fit or serve and dealing with estates or the division of assets are just a few of the unique obstacles that we need to consider and navigate. With these things in mind, we often suggest beginning this process far in advance of the proposed move in order to avoid undue stress and overwhelm. We sit down with our clients and map out a detailed plan of how to get them from where they are to where they want to go, and implement a timeline and provide resources to help get them there.
You can find more details about how we approach the downsizing process on our downsizing services page. If downsizing is something you are considering but don’t know where to start, we would be happy to sit down with you and chat through your options. With a good plan and an experienced team behind you, downsizing doesn’t have to be overwhelming and can open you up to a world of possibilities!
Home for the Holidays: A Realtor's Guide to Captivating Christmas Decor
'Tis the season to transform homes into winter wonderlands, and as a realtor, what better way to capture the festive spirit than by showcasing properties adorned with enchanting Christmas decorations? Creating a warm and inviting atmosphere can significantly enhance the appeal of a home, making potential buyers feel a connection that goes beyond brick and mortar. In this guide, we'll explore innovative and tasteful ways to decorate homes during the holiday season, turning them into irresistible destinations for prospective buyers. Even if you are not selling, here are some great ways to reflect the holiday season within your home.
Curb Appeal that Sparkles
The first impression is crucial, and during the holidays, curb appeal takes on a whole new meaning. Start by adorning the entrance with a festive wreath that complements the home's color scheme. Consider adding subtle outdoor lighting, such as string lights along the pathway or a beautifully illuminated tree near the entrance. This touch not only enhances the home's exterior but also creates a warm and inviting ambiance.
A Cozy Fireplace Setting
Highlight the heart of the home – the fireplace. Arrange plush holiday-themed throws and cushions on the furniture surrounding the fireplace, creating a cozy and inviting space. A well-decorated mantel adorned with stockings, candles, and garlands adds a touch of festive elegance, making potential buyers envision themselves celebrating the holidays in their new home.
Deck the Halls – Stylishly
Opt for a cohesive color scheme that complements the home's interior. Consider classic combinations like gold and red, or go for a more modern touch with silver and blue. Ensure that decorations complement the existing decor rather than overpowering it. Simple touches, such as a beautifully adorned staircase railing or strategically placed ornaments, can bring the holiday spirit without overwhelming the space.
Showcase outdoor entertaining spaces
If the property has outdoor entertaining spaces, don't forget to extend the festive decor outside. String lights, outdoor wreaths, and a well-lit patio can showcase the home's potential for hosting memorable holiday gatherings.
Bedrooms that Gleam with Holiday Magic
Create a serene and festive atmosphere in the bedrooms by incorporating holiday-themed bedding, pillows, and throws. A beautifully adorned Christmas tree in the master bedroom can add a touch of magic. Keep it tasteful and cohesive, ensuring that the decor enhances the room's ambiance without overwhelming the potential buyer's imagination.
Bathrooms with Seasonal Splendor
Even the bathrooms can benefit from a festive touch. Consider adding holiday-themed towels, candles, or a simple bowl of decorative ornaments. It's all about creating a cohesive and inviting atmosphere throughout the entire home.
Kitchen Elegance
The kitchen is often the heart of the home, and during the holidays, it becomes a hub for festive gatherings. Consider adding subtle touches like holiday-themed dishware, a decorative centerpiece, or even a bowl of festive potpourri. If the home has an open layout, make sure the holiday decor seamlessly flows from the kitchen into the adjoining living spaces.
Create a Holiday Scent Experience
Engage the senses by incorporating subtle holiday scents throughout the home. Consider placing scented candles, potpourri, or even baking a batch of festive cookies before showings. The inviting aroma can evoke feelings of comfort and home.
In the competitive world of real estate, making a memorable impression is key, and during the holiday season, decorating with care and thoughtfulness can set your property apart. By creating a warm and festive atmosphere, you not only capture the spirit of the season but also help potential buyers envision themselves celebrating future holidays in their new home. So, deck the halls, light the candles, and let the magic of Christmas make your home irresistible for the holidays.
The Best of The Kingsway!
The Spa at the Old Mill
Summer is coming and it is the perfect time to get out and support our beloved local west end Toronto businesses, who suffered so much throughout the pandemic. To help you find the best places to eat, play and shop, we are updating our neighbourhood pages and will be highlighting a different west end Toronto area over the next few months. Next up The Kingsway!
AVERAGE SALE PRICE (2022)
The Kingsway | $2.45M
TYPE OF HOMES
Detached Tudor style, mostly 2-storey (with some bungalows), set back from the street with private driveways & garages
Est.
1920’s
fun fact
The Kingsway area was established by Robert Home Smith and the names of the streets (Queen Anne, Kingsgarden, King George) were chosen to emphasize English respectability & attract affluent buyers
the kingsway/sunnylea schools
Etobicoke Collegiate
Public | Sunnylea JS (JK-5), Park Lawn JMS (JK-8), Lambton Kingsway JMS (JK-8), Etobicoke Collegiate (9-12)
French | Rosethorn & Islington (immersion), Briarcrest & Second Street (extended), Richview CI (high school)
Catholic | Our Lady of Sorrows (JK-8), St. Mark (JK-8)
THE kingsway/sunnylea NEIGHBOURHOOD
restaurants, bars & shopping located along Bloor Street between Montgomery & Prince Edward
easy access to buses on Royal York & Prince Edward, as well as the Royal York subway station
easy commute downtown by highway or TTC
Brentwood Public Library is located on Brentwood Road North
the 'Taste of the Kingsway' is celebrated along Bloor Street every September
beautiful wide streets & big mature tress are signature features of this highly desirable & well established area
The Crooked Cue
INDULGE.
at Azaria's with their extensive tapas menu & busy downtown vibe
in Demetre's ice cream treats and specialty coffees
in a pint at Henry VIII or The Old Sod pubs
shoot some pool or grab a bite and a drink at The Crooked Cue
in French cuisine at Merlot, Thai at Green Mango, Greek at The Friendly Greek or Italian at ViBo, Sempre or La Veranda Osteria
in traditional fish & chips at Kingsway Fish & Chips
in a delicious meal & glass of wine at Bramble Gastropub
in a yummy burger and fries at Magic Spot
in delicious brunch at Creme De La Creme Cafe
at an old school steakhouse at Harry’s or Black Angus
King’s Mill Park
PLAY.
at Lambton-Kingsway Park's baseball diamonds, playground, tennis courts, skating rink & outdoor pool
get your sticks out at Central arena or take the plunge at Memorial Pool & Health Club
a game of paddle tennis at The Kingsway Platform Tennis Club
join in on classes & community events at the Park Lawn Community Centre
bike, jog or walk the dog along the paths by the Humber River & Old Mill
at the old school Kingsway Theatre
treat yourself to a spa treatment at The Spa at the Old Mill
Oleander Floral Design
SHOP.
ffor flowers & gifts at Oleander Floral Design
for your dad, brother or husband at Bill Mile's for Men
for cigars at The Cigar Studio
for dance gear at Footloose Dancewear
for lingerie at Simply Chic
for on-trend women's fashions at Carriage Trade, Lemonwood or Casual Affairs Clothing
for specialty foods at White House Meats
for everything for the grill at Dickson Barbeque Centre
To find out about other amazing neighbourhoods and the best places to eat, play and shop in Toronto’s west end, check out our neighbourhoods page. If you would like more information about this fabulous west end Toronto neighbourhood or if we are missing one of your favourite local businesses, please feel free to drop us a line at info@westsidestoreys.com - we are always available for your quesitons!
Kindergarten Registration Month at the Toronto District School Board
TDSB kindergarten Registration Month is here
There was a point in our lives when we thought we’d never get out of that kindie playground. We spent years dropping off and picking up the littles before all day kindergarten kicked in. Lots of back and forth and a few precious hours in between. Now, with 4 of our kids in high school and one already off at university, kindergarten feels like a lifetime ago.
Luckily for you, the TDSB Kindergarten Registration process is getting easier every year. The registration for English programs begins in February and you can choose between online registration or booking an appointment at your local school.
how to register for kindergarten
All children that will be turning 4 by December 31, 2023 are able to attend a junior kindergarten program in the City of Toronto in September of this year. If you are new to Toronto and not sure which grade to register for, just contact your schools principal or vice-principal and they will be able to assist you.
Looking to send your child to the local school within your catchment area? It's pretty straight forward. To find your local school for the Toronto District School Board (or Toronto Catholic District School Board ) you just need to enter your address and then register in-person or online.
To register for any Toronto District School Board program you will need proof of age (birth certificate/passport), address (2 pieces of I.D that show address) and your child's immunization record. If you don't have the necessary documentation you can contact the admissions office at the TDSB.
If you are hoping to send your wee one to a school that is not your designated local school you can apply for optional attendance. Many schools in Toronto are closed for optional attendance due to crowding but you can contact your school of choice and find out what their current status is.
There are also many other programs offered by the TDSB including home schooling, alternative schools and academic academies .
Oh, and get used to using loads of acronyms, the board loves them! (FDK, LOI, EQAO, DPA, ECE, FEX, IEP, HSP...you'll be throwing these terms around in no time.)
French Immersion
The board has changed the French immersion programs over the last few years and now offers an Early French Immersion program that starts in the Junior Kindergarten year. The deadline for this program (for a September 2023 start) was November 2022 and the online portal is now closed. If you had your heart set on this option we recommend you reach out to your local school that offers Early French Immersion and they should be able to add you to their waitlist.
Virtual Learning in Kindergarten
The board will be continuing to offer a virtual learning option for families. They are recommending you register with your local school and the virtual options will be made available in May based on availability.
Before & After School Care
Many parents are (rightfully!) concerned about before and after school care and not every school can accommodate all of the children that need it. These fee-based programs are run by a third-party child care provider at the school. Programming usually runs from about 7:00 a.m. to 9:00 a.m., and 3:30 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. You can find more information about the various programs as well as complete a survey to help the TDSB assess the needs of the community here. When you register your child at the school, speak with the Administrator or Principal about the availability of an Full Day Kindergarten (FDK) Before & After School Program at your local school, including details about registration and how to get on a wait-list if there is one!
What to expect
The Toronto District School board has put together a list of helpful links including information on the curriculum and helping to prepare your children for school.
In the Kindergarten program, your child will develop their skills and abilities through inquiry and intentional play-based learning. Teachers and early childhood educators plan learning experiences where children are actively engaged in learning and thinking creatively.
-TDSB Website
We wish your kiddos all the best as they begin their academic journeys! xo